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Dom Violence My Husband Is The Boss

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I know I should leave, but I'm not ready yet.

Hi Sandi,
Please get your safe plan in place, and continue to see your therapist... You have already told us that you 'know the relationship is wrong'. You already know he is doing what your ex husband did to you - you found the strength then to do what you needed, you can again. Please think of your child and the environment you are bringing them up in - they already hear what is happening and sense it (they are already learning that this is normal! and acceptable behaviour - when you know it is not!)...The things your husband is doing/has done to you - would you want anyone to ever do any of those things to your child? .... spare yourself and your child from this - be kind to yourself, love yourself and your child, and find yourselves somewhere safe. Take care :hug:
 
Thanks guys. I'll figure it out. I know this sounds like a dumb thing to say, but I really think my marriage is salvable. I only mentioned the bad things here because I was really upset over something. He's done a lot of good, too. I don't know of many guys who would put up with my panic attacks, anxiety, bouts of Depression and listen to all the abuse I've endured and still stay. Much love to you all. ❤️

Oh Gawd, you sound just like me about 6 months before my ex threw my 2-year-old against the wall for having a nightmare. Wow, that just hit me hard in the gut having said almost the identical thing to my landlord after telling her about some things my ex did.
 
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