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I hate when people do something awful, you have what most would deem a normal human reaction, then the person who instigated suddenly claims you're the "crazy, irrational" one.
For example, my sufferer hung up on me mid-conversation yesterday. We weren't fighting or yelling, though things were a little tense, and I went quiet for a minute to gather my thoughts. He said "You're not going to say anything, guess this conversation's over" and hung up, knowing full well this is one of my greatest pet peeves, as I find it it to be one of the most rude and insulting things you can do to someone. Right after he hung up, he texted me saying I had the nerve to "bother" him while he was heading into the store, and since I had nothing useful to say, he "didn't have time" for it.
I lost it. I texted back "f*ck you" and "don't contact me again". When he realized I meant it, of course he then started calling and texting, changing his tune slightly. As more time went on, he got scared and desperate and even apologized. I don't know what I'm going to do about it all yet. I believe that if you yank on a dog's tail so many times, you can't be surprised when it finally turns around and bites you, but I also want to be better than all that. Help!
For example, my sufferer hung up on me mid-conversation yesterday. We weren't fighting or yelling, though things were a little tense, and I went quiet for a minute to gather my thoughts. He said "You're not going to say anything, guess this conversation's over" and hung up, knowing full well this is one of my greatest pet peeves, as I find it it to be one of the most rude and insulting things you can do to someone. Right after he hung up, he texted me saying I had the nerve to "bother" him while he was heading into the store, and since I had nothing useful to say, he "didn't have time" for it.
I lost it. I texted back "f*ck you" and "don't contact me again". When he realized I meant it, of course he then started calling and texting, changing his tune slightly. As more time went on, he got scared and desperate and even apologized. I don't know what I'm going to do about it all yet. I believe that if you yank on a dog's tail so many times, you can't be surprised when it finally turns around and bites you, but I also want to be better than all that. Help!