Everyone here is right so i wont repeat it but have you asked your doc on what you should say? But yehh i think you do need to tell him something. Hugs and good luck.
I know this feeling all too well so your not alone. It's like your mind can't handle any more emotions so the emotions you do have are solely for your self. Which in a way can be selfish but it sounds like you need to be at the moment. How does your girlfriend handle your condition. Who...
Thank you so much for all your help I certainly will look into it. Shari I'm sorry that happened to you my ex husband was the same I know what you went through thanks for your suggestions.
Thanks so much for all your advise. Its so hard getting officers to talk about this stuff I guess it's because they think it's contagious or week so we try not to think about it. I guess thats why I try and sought help out side of work friends too. Even though I don't have too many of them...
You sound so much like me. I can be under major stress and anxiety and no one would ever know. I am also very good at hiding it in all the jobs I had I've had to hide it. I tend to show anger and frustration first to cover up what I'm really feeling. It took me two medical docs to realise...
For me I force myself on some days to get out of the house. Other times I can stay in the house for weeks at a time. At the moment the way I am forcing my self is by doing weekly lessons in horse riding. It's my passion always has been so when I do that I seem to forget about everything...
Welcome to the site. I can't say too much at the moment as I'm not a carer but I assume that my hubby felt the same way. You must feel powerless at the moment and it would hurt seeing the person you love transform into a person you don't know. I think you're doing all the right things you're...
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Sorry to hear your having bad days. Absolutely I find it gets worse when I'm tired which seems to be more often than not. I have permanent anxiety which I can keep from going into an attack most days so I'm not sure if this is what they are referring to for you. I truly hope it gets...
Welcome to the site. Thats the first step being here and alive and it's amazing what people put up with and not realize what effects it has on you. I've been bullied in a number of places, growing up and then at work. Its amazing what it can do to your self confidence. Stay strong.
hi and welcome. Has he actually been diagnosed and they still let him go? I'm finding that government departments are caring less and less for their members. It's heart breaking to see.
It's even worse because I also don't know how to express what has happened to me properly to work. But they should know that surely. I tried to write a diary and when i read i back it sounds very detached. What they do know is that I'm tired and may not be able to fight any more.
I was just wanting to know if there were any other law enforcement officers on this site who has gone through similar things and can suggest any good articles or books on how to cope with this condition?
I did find book called cop shock which mysteriously went missing and I need to replace...