Thanks for the support Jim.
He definitely is recieving help now. Now I am shocked from what happened. All this time I felt grief over my failure as a wife to him. Our lives being out of control became the norm. He never shared what he would go through in his mind everyday. That he didn't feel...
Hi Carers,
This is new since the last time I was checking out this site. My husband has PTSD and is a OIF veteran. He was recently hospitalized and I'm feeling pretty overwelmed. It was a rough week, cops at my house taking all the firearms out of our house. Being a mom, going to work, being...
Hello Everyone,
My husband is a OIF veteran and has ptsd. He recently was hospitalized a few days ago. I initially logged in to learn more of his condition, but after seeing the strong support group, I found that there are many people out there like me, experiencing very simliar...
Yum
We are talking about food right???? A Chicken,cheese and spinich w/ avocado panini sandwich! Wait skip the spinich part...since the ECOLI outbreak...hehehe and a MOnster Energy drink...
JODS,
I could so go for the SPA thing for myself....see that is what I do for a...
twisted
When I re-read thru this topic...I really am thinking...is this me? Do I really let myself live like this...its so surreal...What a twisted mind my hubby has...what to do...
reality check
Hi Andrea,
I'm doing a little better today...I just need to focus on me and my son, I guess if he wants to go through w/ a divorce then lets do it..if thats the only dumb solution he can come up with...maybe its best that way...I think I just don't want to try...
Thank You
Cdunny and Andrea - thank you...I am too upset right now and don't know what to do...How will I know that I will be okay? Thank You so much for being there for me...I have been strong for so long I am just starting to wear down...
I'm not sure what to do or if there is anything I can do...my husband and I are now at a point where he wants to get a divorce...because his mother called me and I confided in her that me and my husband are on rocky terms for now. According to him we are not suppose to talk to his parents or let...
Shopping!
:jerk: I went shopping yesterday at the outlet mall w/ my little man (15monthsold) bought some comfy shoes and I watched baby run around and smile and wave at everyone in the mall (hes so happy in the mornings)...I am giving the hubby some space and it seems that things are civil for...
Andrea
Oh Andrea,
I am sorry that you cry so much..I get that "Lets pretend like nothing happen thing" also! but, i guess thats how stubborn they are about making things right. I know its hard to be like "HEY! I'm still upset by what just happened between us! Lets talk about it...
You all amaze me
Thank You Rachael, Kerrie-Ann, and Anthony,
You all have giving me some great advise...I will give it a little time and then try the suggestions you gave me. I feel empowered chatting w/ you all...me and baby come first.
I was wondering what kind of methods other spouses use to try to make peace w/ their significant others when your in one of those awkward not talking phases????
Last Night I made my husband a sandwich to bring to work w/ him in the morning (something I only do occasionally he usually loves it)...
Wow Thank You
Wow.... Thank You Everyone for your support it means so much to me...I did talk to a therapist today and she is going to refer me to someone that can help w/ my particular situation and has some experience w/ our type of issues....Phew! It really does make me feel so much better...
My Husband has ptsd, in the past he has always had his family close to him meaning his parents. Just in the past 6 months we bought a brand new home and the inlaws were living w/ us for maybe 3 months(while their condo was being built)...My husband had a really bad outburst w/ me and the baby a...
Hello,
Thank Goodness I found this site. I was starting to think that I was the only problem in our marriage...My husband a former Marine, was diagnosed w/ PTSD in 2004 soon after he came home from Iraq. I guess maybe I was deniel about my husbands condition or didn't try...