Thanks for the replies. Sorry I havent responded until now.
Anni - you are spot on. There is no room to soften information, or cushion the blow when telling him what he needs to know as it simply confuses him and has previously caused nightmares etc. I have to be very factual and clinical and...
Thanks Amethist. I really appreciate your reply and help with the title.
I am currently getting funded threapy sessions with a psychologist through Victims of Crime Compensation. It barely touches the surface and I did have some time where I was unable to care to the kids as I became unstable...
As with many here, my situation is complicated. But in short. I am 30 and have two precious boys. In January last year my husband was killed in an assault. The people who did were friends of my husband's father and we were all attending my father in law's 60th birthday party.
My boys were 5...