Hello again all, sorry I've been away for a week or more but it's been a bit crazy around here. Wife and I have not communicated in about a week, except by email and text message, after I just about blew up and said I couldn't stand the hostility any more, and wanted a separation, by which I...
Thank you, all, who replied. I agree that I need to learn more- I think I've been frustrated that she named herself in the past as suffering from something like ptsd, but in any given interaction, her reality is what it is, whether anger or frustration or whatever.
I have such a hard time just...
Hi, Dameia, thanks so much for your perspective. I'll post more later, after work- but I deeply appreciate the advice and the things to think about.
more later
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Hello all, I'm new around here, but perhaps others have wisdom I can draw upon.
Short version is that I've been married under a year and it's been hell. My wife, before we were married, read books on trauma and told me her childhood really fit some of the descriptions she was reading- there...