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Pelanol
Sometimes I feel like my sufferer will pick a fight just for the sake of it, and more often than not his arguments aren't even rooted in any semblance of rationality.
For example:
He texted asking for space and saying he would let me know when he wanted to talk.
So I left him alone.
The next day he texted asking if I was just going to ignore him.
I said what?! You told me you would let me know when you wanted to talk!
He replied this isn't a game ok...and said I ought to take shit more seriously, and that he's convinced I don't actually care about him.
It ended up getting to a point where HE told ME that I'm done with him when I never once said that. When I pointed this out to him, he said "Well you should be."
This is only one example of so, so many. I feel like a vast majority of our conversations are in essence massive contradictions, and it makes me want to rip my hair out with frustration it's so maddening. It almost seems like he wants to push me away but wants me to do the "dirty work" for him.
I have NO idea how to respond when he's being SO irrational and refuses to see it. Does anyone else experience this, either as a supporter or a sufferer? If so, can you PLEASE help me make sense of something so beyond comprehension?
I guarantee he'll come around tomorrow or the next after and tell me how much he loves me. And around and around we go...
For example:
He texted asking for space and saying he would let me know when he wanted to talk.
So I left him alone.
The next day he texted asking if I was just going to ignore him.
I said what?! You told me you would let me know when you wanted to talk!
He replied this isn't a game ok...and said I ought to take shit more seriously, and that he's convinced I don't actually care about him.
It ended up getting to a point where HE told ME that I'm done with him when I never once said that. When I pointed this out to him, he said "Well you should be."
This is only one example of so, so many. I feel like a vast majority of our conversations are in essence massive contradictions, and it makes me want to rip my hair out with frustration it's so maddening. It almost seems like he wants to push me away but wants me to do the "dirty work" for him.
I have NO idea how to respond when he's being SO irrational and refuses to see it. Does anyone else experience this, either as a supporter or a sufferer? If so, can you PLEASE help me make sense of something so beyond comprehension?
I guarantee he'll come around tomorrow or the next after and tell me how much he loves me. And around and around we go...