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So, why did I look him up on social media, again? I see him standing in the snow with his happy smiling wife, kids and dog. He also posted stuff about his daughter’s team. As I was telling this to my T, I realized why. I have been very hypervigilent lately. I was actually checking to make sure he still lives on the other side of the country. Then, I also noticed that my college friend who was in a frat with him, the friend I told about the rape last year, 24 years after the fact, had clicked “like” on the picture. (This friend was from my inner circle or I wouldn’t have said anything)
Have any of you kept tabs on your rapist? How do you deal with it? I go through moments of how this is unjust, moments of seeing the happy family and thinking maybe I was never raped/did my mind make the whole thing up? Moments of feeling completely unsupported by a friend that I confided in.
Have any of you kept tabs on your rapist? How do you deal with it? I go through moments of how this is unjust, moments of seeing the happy family and thinking maybe I was never raped/did my mind make the whole thing up? Moments of feeling completely unsupported by a friend that I confided in.
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