I'm having a bad moment. I'm frustrated and angry. He told me today, I'm a stressor, not a stress reliever. This was after I wrote him an email detailing how much I love him, how much I want to be with him,and how proud of him I am of him. I feel kind of foolish now.
He says I'm abrasive in how I ask for things. I'll change that, then it'll be my tone, or that I don't do some task correctly. Or I'm not sweet enough. If I pull away, I'm being laconic and distant. If I want to be close, I'm not giving enough space.
I feel like I'm jumping through hoop after hoop with no end in sight. That I'll never be solace for him-like it's a horizon line I'll never reach. I can't talk to him about it. It'll stress him out then he'll say I'm not happy and threaten to leave.
I know work is stressing him out now, but it's been over a month like this. He's distant and short and I miss him so much.
I'm sad and tired and feel like this whole relationship is hopeless today.
Those of you that are committed to sticking with their sufferer,how do you guys get through bad moments- times when you feel sad, lonely, depressed and tired?
He says I'm abrasive in how I ask for things. I'll change that, then it'll be my tone, or that I don't do some task correctly. Or I'm not sweet enough. If I pull away, I'm being laconic and distant. If I want to be close, I'm not giving enough space.
I feel like I'm jumping through hoop after hoop with no end in sight. That I'll never be solace for him-like it's a horizon line I'll never reach. I can't talk to him about it. It'll stress him out then he'll say I'm not happy and threaten to leave.
I know work is stressing him out now, but it's been over a month like this. He's distant and short and I miss him so much.
I'm sad and tired and feel like this whole relationship is hopeless today.
Those of you that are committed to sticking with their sufferer,how do you guys get through bad moments- times when you feel sad, lonely, depressed and tired?