Abuse
In addition to the 'no physical abuse' rule, I would add the rule of 'no unforgiveable emotional abuse, verbal abuse, etc'
because couples can argue but not be so mean and nasty that the words and actions made during an argument or wave of PTSD be unforgiveable.
There are other forms of abuse, other than just the physical, so I am just adding those here to widen the scope.
Example: calling your spouse an asshole may be considered verbal abuse, and leaving in a spinning-tires car during an argument may be considered abuse of the relationship, but it may be forgiveable, if the one who is guilty really is sincerely sorry for the words and actions.
I depends on how much you both are willing to tolerate.
In addition to the 'no physical abuse' rule, I would add the rule of 'no unforgiveable emotional abuse, verbal abuse, etc'
because couples can argue but not be so mean and nasty that the words and actions made during an argument or wave of PTSD be unforgiveable.
There are other forms of abuse, other than just the physical, so I am just adding those here to widen the scope.
Example: calling your spouse an asshole may be considered verbal abuse, and leaving in a spinning-tires car during an argument may be considered abuse of the relationship, but it may be forgiveable, if the one who is guilty really is sincerely sorry for the words and actions.
I depends on how much you both are willing to tolerate.