No my suggestion isn't mild. IMHO, the stated memories seem dysfunctional enough to warrant concern. But again, I think it's important to go to a trained professional to seek answers. I assumed wrongly you might have meant some kind of hypnotic suggestion because I don't know of how memories can be planted into someone's mind otherwise. And again, I have not stated a specific scenario with any details, only that it sounds like it COULD be abuse and again (and again) that it is important for OP to seek out the qualified opinion and help of a professional mental health counselor or psychologist to determine what is going on with the conscious memories that she has stated here.