Just been reading something interesting about how toxic familys create energetic cords with you that can only be severed by removing yourself from them. one analogy I thought of though its not nice as I am trying my best to be commpassioante for my family as there very sick (as I must be because I have been a part of it) is that toxic family systems are a tumour on your soul that has to be cut out completely or it will kill you. your nervous system was literally constructed around them so any time your with them there is nothing to prevent you from going back to being that conditioned person again and it doesent matter how much healing work you are doing if there not changing as well your nervous system has no chance of coping with the onslaught of there biochemical assaults on you. I believe in a concept of the divine and I think it would not let anything live unless it was meant to survive so I believe regeneration and the abiltity to find a new source is possible. the challenging part is finding out how to do it.