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Palev
I'm feeling really angry right now and I'm trying to work through it. I'm recently divorced. I pay the medical, dental, vision insurance for my two kids. My ex recently took one of them to the dentist for a checkup. Clean bill of health, no cavities. I received a statement from the insurance company that I may owe some money out of pocket. I have not received any bills. It turns out he changed the mailing address for the dentist office. He hasn't been paying the dental bills nor has he passed them on to me. This is the second time he's done this. I guarantee he won't stop doing it. I believe he's using it to get back at me for divorcing him. I'm not sure what to do other than to change the mailing address back and tell them that only I can change it, if they want to get paid. I'm also not happy with him incurring more debt in my name and not helping to pay for it. There are several charges including one a $20 charge for dental instructions! I feel he's trying to nickel and dime to death out of spite. I'm wondering if I can take the money out of the palimony I pay him each month. It's better than smacking him upside the head.