So I heard form my ex sufferer a week ago. My stomach was in knots for over a month wondering how his biopsy went. When I heard nothing I assumed the worst. It turns out he was ok. He said he'd keep me posted but didn't. So now it's back to him checking in every 4 weeks, probably more, to say he's alive.
It started that he checked in weekly and then a little less frequently. In May he wanted to see me again and then silence for 3 weeks. He unexpectedly texted when his other cat died, but didn't tell me his results were ok. I'm guessing he'll go back to his old pattern of checking in monthly or maybe even longer. I'm at a loss. What do I say?
When he broke it off I told him I wouldn't contact him anymore but that I hoped he'd check in sometime so that I know he's ok. I wasn't expecting a monthly text that says "I'm not dead". It's going on like this too long. I just don't know what to say the next time he texts. There's no communication.
It started that he checked in weekly and then a little less frequently. In May he wanted to see me again and then silence for 3 weeks. He unexpectedly texted when his other cat died, but didn't tell me his results were ok. I'm guessing he'll go back to his old pattern of checking in monthly or maybe even longer. I'm at a loss. What do I say?
When he broke it off I told him I wouldn't contact him anymore but that I hoped he'd check in sometime so that I know he's ok. I wasn't expecting a monthly text that says "I'm not dead". It's going on like this too long. I just don't know what to say the next time he texts. There's no communication.