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Since it's a little close to V-day, the talk around my walk place is what everyone is doing for it. My co workers and I were talking about it, I told them that I personally don't care for V-day but if my partners does I'll do something special for them but i'm guessing the last part flew over everyone's head. I started to get interrogated for why i don't care for it....I just don't. The asked me a lot of questions and we came down to the bottom line that I'm not a romantic person but for some reason I was more compelled to understanding why.
Since being on this website, I've learned that the reason I am today is because of what happened in the past. I don't look at marriage as a thing because my parents obviously don't take it seriously, about 70% of the marriages in my family ended up in divorce because one was cheating on the other or marriage was just a solution because they had children, both of those are the reason why I see my parents marriage as a joke. I look at valentines day and see it as a bit annoying.
I hate seeing people flirt, i don't like the thought of v-day sex or what ever, seeing a slew of chocolates,hearts and teddy bears everywhere I go make me nauseous. Thinking that i may have a romantic s/o in the future keeps me away from relationships (amoungst a lot of other things) .
I also find no attraction to male or female, both romantically or sexually. I'd rather stay home stuff my face with bbq pizza and watch movies with my dogs than to go out on a date. And oddly enough I feel like something is wrong with me because no one else can see it the way I do, but I can understand why it would be important to others.
Since being on this website, I've learned that the reason I am today is because of what happened in the past. I don't look at marriage as a thing because my parents obviously don't take it seriously, about 70% of the marriages in my family ended up in divorce because one was cheating on the other or marriage was just a solution because they had children, both of those are the reason why I see my parents marriage as a joke. I look at valentines day and see it as a bit annoying.
I hate seeing people flirt, i don't like the thought of v-day sex or what ever, seeing a slew of chocolates,hearts and teddy bears everywhere I go make me nauseous. Thinking that i may have a romantic s/o in the future keeps me away from relationships (amoungst a lot of other things) .
I also find no attraction to male or female, both romantically or sexually. I'd rather stay home stuff my face with bbq pizza and watch movies with my dogs than to go out on a date. And oddly enough I feel like something is wrong with me because no one else can see it the way I do, but I can understand why it would be important to others.