Hey
I try to keep it as short as possible. Maybe my title sounds harsh but I'm really asking myself this question right now.
I've read so much here about the sufferer who take off, break up or just want to be left alone. I truly believe deep down inside they all want someone to support them and someone they can count on but most likely they push those ppl away.
I have experience with CPTSD and therefore I know they (military ppl) are trained to be by themselves and not to relate on someone. I know my husband loves me and needs me. He also wants to be with me but he can't because of his mental state of mind. He is isolating himself, not reaching out to me unless it's necessary or he can't even say something nice or loving everything what he text me seems to be cold and plain. So not himself.
What is it that makes them feel they are better off without a supporter? I know many feel guilty putting their loved ones through this time, others feel overwhelmed.
I would love to hear more opinions or even experience.
Please don't take it personal. I don't want to stereotype ppl or trivialize them when I talk about "them" or "all". I know everyone has a story and a reason. I'm just a supporter/wife who tries to understand.
Thank you so much
I try to keep it as short as possible. Maybe my title sounds harsh but I'm really asking myself this question right now.
I've read so much here about the sufferer who take off, break up or just want to be left alone. I truly believe deep down inside they all want someone to support them and someone they can count on but most likely they push those ppl away.
I have experience with CPTSD and therefore I know they (military ppl) are trained to be by themselves and not to relate on someone. I know my husband loves me and needs me. He also wants to be with me but he can't because of his mental state of mind. He is isolating himself, not reaching out to me unless it's necessary or he can't even say something nice or loving everything what he text me seems to be cold and plain. So not himself.
What is it that makes them feel they are better off without a supporter? I know many feel guilty putting their loved ones through this time, others feel overwhelmed.
I would love to hear more opinions or even experience.
Please don't take it personal. I don't want to stereotype ppl or trivialize them when I talk about "them" or "all". I know everyone has a story and a reason. I'm just a supporter/wife who tries to understand.
Thank you so much