The 25th January 2015 marked our 30th wedding anniversary. We have been separated for the past 2 1/2 years. I left with our daughter as he refused to discuss his cheating and lying with me and was completely withdrawn form us. I could take no more, no matter what I tried he did not want my help. He said he needed time on his own to figure things out and so we started a 6 month trial separation. All this did was allow him to establish a relationship with a woman he works with. He lied about it for 2 years but finally told me about it just before Christmas.
I asked him if he wanted me to file for a divorce and got no reply. He rarely answers any communication about our relationship, ony responding to communication about our daughter. He sees his daughter for a couple of hours once a fortnight as he says that is all he can cope with, however his new partner whom he lives with has 2 children, younger than our daughter. I don't understand how he can be living with them and having so very little to do with his own child.
Has anyone been in a similar situation?
I asked him if he wanted me to file for a divorce and got no reply. He rarely answers any communication about our relationship, ony responding to communication about our daughter. He sees his daughter for a couple of hours once a fortnight as he says that is all he can cope with, however his new partner whom he lives with has 2 children, younger than our daughter. I don't understand how he can be living with them and having so very little to do with his own child.
Has anyone been in a similar situation?