When there is one who doesn't play by the old rules, the really dysfunctional stuff stands out.
Yeah. For me that involves I guess realizing that I am the cause of almost all of my family's problems but that there is seeded dysfunction there within the family unit while it is not all me it is mostly influenced by me & I am part of the dynamic or continuing or encouraging or what ever. Hoping that me being gone for long time will help them to figure out how crazy I was and help them selves more, I want to be there to help, but I am not healthy enough, as most of the really dysfunctional stuff is all me. I can't heal nothin I guess.