ladee
MyPTSD Pro
And you are aware of trying to stop the feelings.... that is half the battle right there... and saying the birth process is perfect.... lots of pain in the middle part.... but we got thru it didn't we....
And our kids have their own journey... that has nothing to do with us. and they are adults, making their own choices. Just as we did, and we paid our consequences. Just as they will. Good or bad, it is what it is.... but we do have the power to become some awesome women on the other side of this, not that we aren't awesome now !!!! Because we are.... and we both have loving support. And one old vulture flapping in our midst only showed us how close we all are... how bonded we are.... see, we take nothing for granted , we have our voices... and our hearts, that are tender and loving.... that's part of the reason we hurt so bad.... as so many here for so many reasons..... very very tender hearted people we are... Thank God !!!!
And you may find yourself doing the things you don't want to do... it's because we 'unlearning', try and remember that.... and we just say, oh hell, this doesn't work, so we get back on track...it's exhausting work.... but you are not alone... just remember, we are walking this together... and we look up at each other sometimes and just laugh about how hard we make it on our self, then take a few more baby steps.... we got this Rain.... we got this !!!!
And our kids have their own journey... that has nothing to do with us. and they are adults, making their own choices. Just as we did, and we paid our consequences. Just as they will. Good or bad, it is what it is.... but we do have the power to become some awesome women on the other side of this, not that we aren't awesome now !!!! Because we are.... and we both have loving support. And one old vulture flapping in our midst only showed us how close we all are... how bonded we are.... see, we take nothing for granted , we have our voices... and our hearts, that are tender and loving.... that's part of the reason we hurt so bad.... as so many here for so many reasons..... very very tender hearted people we are... Thank God !!!!
And you may find yourself doing the things you don't want to do... it's because we 'unlearning', try and remember that.... and we just say, oh hell, this doesn't work, so we get back on track...it's exhausting work.... but you are not alone... just remember, we are walking this together... and we look up at each other sometimes and just laugh about how hard we make it on our self, then take a few more baby steps.... we got this Rain.... we got this !!!!