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I dunno what to do. I feel like my world is collapsing. My vet was on vacation in Florida and got word that his cabin in Colorado caught fire in the kitchen so now he's on his way there to assess damages. He was offered a job there out of the blue as well with the fire department (he's a fireman now as well)...he told me he's considering taking it. He said he's confused, having nightmares,not sleeping, his daughter is going through a lot, he doesn't think he can handle my 3 boys, he cant be what I need, so much is happening all at once. I heard all of this the last 24 hours. He said we have to take a huge step back and now he's gonna be in Colorado for a month dealing with his cabin and considering this new job (which by the way if he takes won't be for a year). He lives in Tn now and were 4 hours apart and is doable with my boys visitations to their father but him moving to Colorado completely shuts the door on us. He says he doesn't know what he wants and can he call me when he gets back from CO but he already said he can't handle my boys so what is there left to talk about? He admits to being really stressed and confused right now. I just dunno if he really cared for me why would that job be in consideration because he is nowhere near hard up for money. I begged him to just say "I don't want you anymore" but all I got was "I'm confused"....what am I suppose to do? The man just said he didn't think he was capable to take on my kids and he's never said that in the 2 1/2 years I've known him and yet he is still texting me as well...I'm just lost right now.