anthony
Founder
I agree, wise woman. People often feel guilty after an event, the decisions made and so forth, which is natural, but there are limits that most often forget to apply to this after event reasoning and analysis. What we do, we cannot undo, what we decide and act, we cannot undecide or undo our act; what is done is done, and we did it that way at that time because that is all our mind would allow us to do. If our mind gave us three options, and we have to pick the most appropriate, then we are still doing what we see best at that time, regardless the outcome.
Often when someone dies as a result of anothers decision, they slowly grow guilt beyond comprehension, hence why they usually end up with PTSD; but what most fail to see, is that they are human, and being such allows us to make errors. We then make a choice, either we feel guilty about our errors and suffer, or we heal our decisions, learn from them, reason with ourselves, then not make the same mistakes twice in life.
If more people thought like yourself Marlene, healing their PTSD would be much easier, no doubt. However, we are all unique, which changes everything.
Often when someone dies as a result of anothers decision, they slowly grow guilt beyond comprehension, hence why they usually end up with PTSD; but what most fail to see, is that they are human, and being such allows us to make errors. We then make a choice, either we feel guilty about our errors and suffer, or we heal our decisions, learn from them, reason with ourselves, then not make the same mistakes twice in life.
If more people thought like yourself Marlene, healing their PTSD would be much easier, no doubt. However, we are all unique, which changes everything.