sassyblewe
New Here
Okay so my boyfriend has PTSD. We've been together a year and a half, and I didn't realize it was that bad until about six months ago. Now after reading up some more on PTSD and learning some things, a lot of his past behavior makes since. Well about a year ago, he disappeared for about three days. Afterwards, I was so upset he promised me he would never do that again. Or if he needed some time alone, he would tell me before disappearing. Well about a week and a half ago, we were perfectly fine. It seemed like everything was perfect in our relationship, then all of a sudden he's gone. He wont answer my calls, or texts. I'm not sure if I should be hurt that he broke his promise, or worried. Its been over a week now, and I'm wondering what to do. He's told me he's disappeared on some of his exs before and not come back, and my biggest fear is of that happening to me, though he promised me he wouldn't do that to me. Is this a common thing? Have other people experienced their significant other just vanishing, and did they come back, and how did you handle it? I'm just not sure how to go about this. Should I just give him space? Before I connected the dots that it could be his PTSD, I kinda blew up on him for ignoring me. I was upset and hurt, and I'm hoping that didn't just push him farther away. Also the anniversary of what caused his PTSD is coming up, so maybe that could have something to do with it?