Glen Myers
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I can flirt/approach (barely) girls I find mildly attractive but not really all the way. Ever since I was 13 (i'm 20 now) i've been settling for girls at "the bottom of the barrel" if you will...
The girls i'm really attracted to I always get WAY to nervous and petrified to talk to.
Part of the reason is because i'm only 5'3" and the girls I like are really social party girls who usually go out with guys who are 5'9-6'0" so I feel like i'm really unattractive to them. I only rarely see them with a short guy like me and they usually have a rock solid confidence which I am not even close too.
Whenever a girl is wearing shorts or a croptop that shows her nice physique I automatically tell myself i'm not good/cool/sociallly outgoing enough for her. A lot of the times when I see their boyfriends they're usually either a tall thuggish guy or a tall athletic guy. Everyonce in a while i'll see them with a shorter guy like me but I always chalk it up to "good luck" or something completely ridiculous which I know isn't true.
Over the past year and a half i've been working like a mad man on my physical appearance,skin, and clothes. I get looks from the kind of girls I like, almost never, but it happens from time to time and when it does I can't even talk to her because of how shy/nervous I am. I just feel they're from some superior planet and only go out with guys from this said superior planet.
I can't get myself to accept that they'd be interested in talking to me.
By the way, i'm still 2-4 inches taller than the girls i'm talking about so it's not like i'm trying to get with tall girls...
The girls i'm really attracted to I always get WAY to nervous and petrified to talk to.
Part of the reason is because i'm only 5'3" and the girls I like are really social party girls who usually go out with guys who are 5'9-6'0" so I feel like i'm really unattractive to them. I only rarely see them with a short guy like me and they usually have a rock solid confidence which I am not even close too.
Whenever a girl is wearing shorts or a croptop that shows her nice physique I automatically tell myself i'm not good/cool/sociallly outgoing enough for her. A lot of the times when I see their boyfriends they're usually either a tall thuggish guy or a tall athletic guy. Everyonce in a while i'll see them with a shorter guy like me but I always chalk it up to "good luck" or something completely ridiculous which I know isn't true.
Over the past year and a half i've been working like a mad man on my physical appearance,skin, and clothes. I get looks from the kind of girls I like, almost never, but it happens from time to time and when it does I can't even talk to her because of how shy/nervous I am. I just feel they're from some superior planet and only go out with guys from this said superior planet.
I can't get myself to accept that they'd be interested in talking to me.
By the way, i'm still 2-4 inches taller than the girls i'm talking about so it's not like i'm trying to get with tall girls...