I have been with my fiancé for three years and he has always told me he has PTSD (served two tours in Iraq in the Marine Corp), but I've never really seen it. Looking back and after doing research he definitely displayed symptoms (alcohol abuse was his biggest symptom) but he at least always functioned well in life. About four weeks ago he decided he couldn't handle our relationship anymore because of stress with my ex husband. He totally shut me out. Yesterday I must have gotten through to him when I tried talking to him and he came around for a few hours. But he still said he's fine, doesn't need help from anyone, can handle things himself, etc. Today he's back to where he was, ignoring me and the kids. Not wanting to sleep in the same bed as me even to just lay down next to me and not talk. Says we're not done but "everything's not peachy." Night and day from where he was last night. I expected this to an extent but it still hurts and he's colder than I thought he would be. His family and I are working with the VA to try to get him in for help and his mom and I are going to go in on Friday for advice. He's incredibly stubborn so I feel like we need all the help we can get. Any advice for me in the meantime? I realize I probably just need to leave him alone, but any ideas on solutions would be much appreciated! Thanks!