I was treated inappropriately by my step father growing up and have memory gaps. I don't know what happened. What I do know is I HATE sex. I go completely numb when touched by a man. Like physically numb. I just don't feel a thing. I'm married but we rarely have sex. I like to snuggle, but beyond that..nope. T wants to talk about it. I told her that my husband and I have intimacy issues and she wants to talk about it. How do I talk about this? I'm ashamed, scared, embarrassed.