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Is pinching preteens nipples considered sexual abuse

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He was an adult. I hated it. He would do it in front of people and saw it as a game. I got yelled at again last night fo...

I am a sexual assault detective in California. If he was grabbing your nipples when you were a child he's in violation of 647.6 of the California Penal Code (child annoyance). It usually carries a minimal conviction, but if found guilty it is mandatory that the person register as a sex offender.
 
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50 year man 11 year old girl. No other children, no horse play. Made it very clear he was turned on by developed breasts...

Sexual assault. No ifs, ands, or buts.

Very sorry you are suffering like this.

Agree witness sounds like a co-abuser.
 
Yes, it is. Children are not supposed to have anything like that done to them.
 
It did happen in California. I am sure the statutes of limitations has run out. I know I am not the only victim because he would tell me about previous girls. A lot of his drug addict girlfriends leave their children alone with him.
 
I too am very sorry you are going through this. The part I want to make sure you hear is that not only is the person doing this to you in the wrong, but whoever (and my gut says maybe even a parent) is telling/punishing you for "putting up a fuss", is VERY in the wrong. Do NOT let that person get in your head and silence you. I made this mistake in the past and paid a humongous price. Keep voicing that this is unwanted and NOT okay. If I read over this right, you said this person also has child porn- this person therefore is an extreme threat to be around and I would make efforts to go to a friends house each time they were over. Just because they are giving you a "titty twister" doesnt mean they are using a playful tactic to touch your breasts. Voice your opinion, and if it is told to be quiet, maybe you need to turn to another afult who will listen and fight for you.
 
Purple Nurples or Titty Twisters I'd class the same as Wet Willies, Raspberries, Tickling, Towel Snapping, Bold Fingers...
A child having their nipples touched by an adult is not the same as getting snapped by a towel by someone the same age or older. The context is child experiencing unwanted touching from adult. Sexual assault period.
 
AND they mentioned more not in public is going on. This should he taken very seriously, I so agree. Whoever adult that is saying stop making a big deal of it is full of S***. Sorry, this is along the lines of what happened to me as a kid details different. So its hard for me to not get fired up about it. You are doing the right thing in saying no. Keep fighting. Even go to someone/teacher at school if you have to.
 
Sounds like a typical molester in some ways. Does something societally deviant then blames the victim for reporting. Not sure of their relationship to you just by reading the first page. The important thing to take away is that this person was wrong and he violated your rights.

I've experience on the receiving end by a person of my own age and it was unwanted behavior still. One time only and it ended up disconnecting my nipple from the underlying-related tissues as in it was no longer like my other nipple, no longer capable of become suffused with blood, etc. from a 'self proclaimed' martial arts expert. Not just fun and games by a long shot.

Not sure if you are just examining the past of long ago and you are an adult or this is still going on and you are a minor. These things are important in your report for people to give you correct feedback. Assumptions on things like a statute of limitations can't be advised without information as to when it happened, which also would give your age now, when going forward with any action.

In any case, like others have said the behavior was wrong on his part, period. You're not responsible for his deviant behavior, so reporting it is not what could have ruined his, his behavior is what could have ruined his life. Please don't feel any guilt for that.
 
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