I have PTSD due to a life or death incident I was involved in as a police officer. I have been in therapy for over a year. Invalidation is major part of my Ptsd. My recent struggle has been with my wife going out with other male friends without me. Her main one, I dont believe she is physically attracted to but I still get very insecure when she goes out drinking with him. Usualky it ends up with them meeting up with other guys too. I do not believe she has ever been untrue to me but I'm sure every guy who gets cheated on believed the same thing. I Understand her claim that she needs to spend time with friends and I know me and my PTSD can b difficult to live with but I basically have a breakdown everytime she goes out like that. Anger and rage! Am I out of line and need to loosen up and not giver her grief over this? (It's inpossible for me to loosen up about it). If she asks my opinion about going out I tell her it's fine because I dont want to b an ass and say no u can't go out w friends. Then I sit around in a world of hell. And then it causes a lot of stress between us. Anyone with similar experience or input? Hard to explain on here but I tried to clarify. Thank you