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Or letting his grass get a foot tall before he mows it (we are talking about 20 square feet - flat terrain, if he does front and back).
I did not want to derail this thread but mine is just the opposite.
There are chores he cannot do because of his fear of germs... but...
Some things... like people he does not even know having an unkept lawn... or small things like this.
He can go on and on, complaing. I just learned to roll my eyes and wait until he is done complaining.
He can sound like a grumpy old man but isn't even that old.
He has a deep fear of all things dirty and imperfect - like he things that a person who cannot be trusted with the little things cannot be trusted with the big things....
and he needs to be always perfect when he dresses or the way he walks or having his briefcase in a certain order... and then he is so mega prejudiced against people who are different and for example scuff their feet.
I do think that he wasts to much energy on being perfect. Engergy he actually does not have.
He basically cannot allow himself or other people to be just lazy.