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Another bad day. I've been diagnosed with a severe illness and I feel like poop and my hubby is getting stressed and going overboard with stuff again which is driving me crazy. He will barely leave the house without his fake biker vest and rings on, he's addicted to dip again, he sits in front of the tv for hours just staring at his phone, he's started looking for motorcycles all the time again even though we are filing bankruptcy... its getting to the point where I don't know how to cope. Honestly I'm starting to question how healthy this is for my son to grow up around because he swears I'm the problem not him.
We discuss things and I cry and beg him to try and then he gets sleepy and starts to talk to me after a couple of hours and then everything rational he says he forgets within a couple of days and swears he didn't say it and we never had that part of the discussion and then we are back to square one. Its starting to make me feel crazy living with a person that doesn;t remember most of the serious conversations we've had in years. What can I do? Is this normal? Does anyone else have any experience? He says I should just let him do whatever he wants but in past whenever I did that he went to extremes and used to get us in financial trouble or just upturn our whole lives. I have a toddler son and I really don't want him to go through that...
Another bad day. I've been diagnosed with a severe illness and I feel like poop and my hubby is getting stressed and going overboard with stuff again which is driving me crazy. He will barely leave the house without his fake biker vest and rings on, he's addicted to dip again, he sits in front of the tv for hours just staring at his phone, he's started looking for motorcycles all the time again even though we are filing bankruptcy... its getting to the point where I don't know how to cope. Honestly I'm starting to question how healthy this is for my son to grow up around because he swears I'm the problem not him.
We discuss things and I cry and beg him to try and then he gets sleepy and starts to talk to me after a couple of hours and then everything rational he says he forgets within a couple of days and swears he didn't say it and we never had that part of the discussion and then we are back to square one. Its starting to make me feel crazy living with a person that doesn;t remember most of the serious conversations we've had in years. What can I do? Is this normal? Does anyone else have any experience? He says I should just let him do whatever he wants but in past whenever I did that he went to extremes and used to get us in financial trouble or just upturn our whole lives. I have a toddler son and I really don't want him to go through that...