My boyfriend got into a car accident a few months ago, sadly the man in the other car died. I don't really know how to go about helping him through this. I have made sure to be there for him of course and I'm trying to remind him that it was an accident every chance I get. With the holidays around the corner and him finding out he had a family, he is becoming more depressed and saying things like it should have been him that died that day. I don't know what to do and I worry about him everyday. Some days are better than others but I came to the internet and have been reading a lot about people who have either gone through this themselves or been close to someone who has. Any thoughts you have to help would be so appreciated. I want nothing more than to help in any way I can! Thank you