I am hoping it is ok to post another thread? I appreciate everyone's responses to my other post!
I am feeling so jumbled up and uncertain and afraid right now! I really need help sorting through some things......
My husband has been asked to relocate again for his job - probably within the next month- and with the knowledge that he may be asked to relocate again in the next 2-6 months.
We have moved so much (3 times) in the last year - 2 of those times I did the moves alone because he was on a buisness trip - and had so much in the way of change and upheaval/stress.
I am just wanting someone else to help me think this through because I am feeling overwhelmed. And they want an answer about whether we'd be willing by Monday.....then they would make an offer......
The move would be back to a place we've already lived that we really liked. It felt like home - we were there the longest we've ever been anywhere - 3 years. And so we have friends there.... It would also be a little closer to our families - about 9 hours closer - still leaves a whole lot of distance between us & our families, but 9 hours is a big chunk to deduct.
Where we are now, I don't really like the house or the area. I'm not attached to anything or anybody because we haven't been here long enough. However, my daughter has started school here - and the school year is going to start again next week. Also, I've just accepted a new job - which I have been working toward for many months. Although, honestly, it triggers me quite a bit, and I'm not sure it's the best job for me.
Unfortunately, I don't want to have to make ANY kind of a decision right now. I know my husband would really like to make the move back to where we were before, and I have so many concerns about that, not to mention I am already having a very difficult time dealing with symptoms - adding the chaos and upheaval associated with a move? I don't know. I am really scared about even thinking about this decision!
Can anyone help with what to do with this?
I am feeling so jumbled up and uncertain and afraid right now! I really need help sorting through some things......
My husband has been asked to relocate again for his job - probably within the next month- and with the knowledge that he may be asked to relocate again in the next 2-6 months.
We have moved so much (3 times) in the last year - 2 of those times I did the moves alone because he was on a buisness trip - and had so much in the way of change and upheaval/stress.
I am just wanting someone else to help me think this through because I am feeling overwhelmed. And they want an answer about whether we'd be willing by Monday.....then they would make an offer......
The move would be back to a place we've already lived that we really liked. It felt like home - we were there the longest we've ever been anywhere - 3 years. And so we have friends there.... It would also be a little closer to our families - about 9 hours closer - still leaves a whole lot of distance between us & our families, but 9 hours is a big chunk to deduct.
Where we are now, I don't really like the house or the area. I'm not attached to anything or anybody because we haven't been here long enough. However, my daughter has started school here - and the school year is going to start again next week. Also, I've just accepted a new job - which I have been working toward for many months. Although, honestly, it triggers me quite a bit, and I'm not sure it's the best job for me.
Unfortunately, I don't want to have to make ANY kind of a decision right now. I know my husband would really like to make the move back to where we were before, and I have so many concerns about that, not to mention I am already having a very difficult time dealing with symptoms - adding the chaos and upheaval associated with a move? I don't know. I am really scared about even thinking about this decision!
Can anyone help with what to do with this?