So, back to the same power/ submission thing in relationship.
This time I need practical advice. I am meeting a woman who kind of triggers me or lets say she mirrors an aspect of myself which I find hard to deal with. I know she likes me, she has even said good things about me but I still find her behaviour at times very core collapsing.
So the thing is, she likes to be seen as someone who is selfconfident, someone who also says her opinion and wants to kind of be dominant. I was never someone who backs off easily and dislike to be seen as someone who easily gives in or is fearful. There lies the problem. I kind of want to be like her and at the same time I dont want to loose.
So what I want to know is, how can I handle her withput focusing on her too much and feeling defeated. There are other people there too. Focus on others and ignore? Not talking to her?
Need practical stuff...like imagination techniques or sentences I could repeat?
Anyone any ideas?
Thanks
Sorry for sounding so needy...but needed advice
This time I need practical advice. I am meeting a woman who kind of triggers me or lets say she mirrors an aspect of myself which I find hard to deal with. I know she likes me, she has even said good things about me but I still find her behaviour at times very core collapsing.
So the thing is, she likes to be seen as someone who is selfconfident, someone who also says her opinion and wants to kind of be dominant. I was never someone who backs off easily and dislike to be seen as someone who easily gives in or is fearful. There lies the problem. I kind of want to be like her and at the same time I dont want to loose.
So what I want to know is, how can I handle her withput focusing on her too much and feeling defeated. There are other people there too. Focus on others and ignore? Not talking to her?
Need practical stuff...like imagination techniques or sentences I could repeat?
Anyone any ideas?
Thanks
Sorry for sounding so needy...but needed advice
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