My bf was just recently diagnosed with ptsd. I have recognized the signs and told him he should get some help for 2 years and FINALLY us getting pregnant made him want to get help. I was beyond relieved and thrilled when the dr immediately prescribed him the lowest dosage of meds/antidepressant. Within 3 weeks of taking them I saw a change in him. A wonderful change. Since being on the meds (6 weeks) he hasn't had any serious meltdowns/anger issues. It has been so calm and peaceful in our home.
Tonight, we were at dinner with my best friend and he and her got into an argument. It crushed me, I was put in the middle and she ended up having a friend come pick her up from the restaurant. He continued the argument as we left and got home. He went on telling me that he has absolutely no emotions. He sees me as any other female. And all of the sudden, as of tonight, he doesn't want kids anymore. I'm so confused, lost! We lost our pregnancy. And since we have been desperately trying again. I just need support, help, ideas, answers. Anything. I don't understand how he can go from being this amazing person to me for 2+ years (minimal arguing) to this. He said so many hurtful things tonight. And in between everything being discussed, he would lighten the mood, kiss me, hug me, smile. And then when I would shed a tear he would go off again. I'm angry for putting up with him and letting him tell me the things he did, knowing that in the morning he will say sorry and everything will be fine. What do I do? Is this normal PTSD behavior? Do you just deal and take all that I said with a grain of salt?? Help :(
Tonight, we were at dinner with my best friend and he and her got into an argument. It crushed me, I was put in the middle and she ended up having a friend come pick her up from the restaurant. He continued the argument as we left and got home. He went on telling me that he has absolutely no emotions. He sees me as any other female. And all of the sudden, as of tonight, he doesn't want kids anymore. I'm so confused, lost! We lost our pregnancy. And since we have been desperately trying again. I just need support, help, ideas, answers. Anything. I don't understand how he can go from being this amazing person to me for 2+ years (minimal arguing) to this. He said so many hurtful things tonight. And in between everything being discussed, he would lighten the mood, kiss me, hug me, smile. And then when I would shed a tear he would go off again. I'm angry for putting up with him and letting him tell me the things he did, knowing that in the morning he will say sorry and everything will be fine. What do I do? Is this normal PTSD behavior? Do you just deal and take all that I said with a grain of salt?? Help :(
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