Ive got a question... if given the option by your ptsd partner to just walk away bare yourself the pain when they are in a dark hole.... why is it so hard too.... just walking away .....im not a wife, i dont have obligations, or expectations.....all i know is that im a fighter, i dont give up, i believe in him, and i love him.... in saying this why do we put ourselves through the pain when its not so good?... im glad that his compromised with me to still be in it even though its only seeing eachother once on the weekend right now.... he says that... but why give the option to leave and still compromise and keep me in it. Is it him just wanting to please me even though he doesnt really want it? Why bother ....why not him just letting me go?.....or is it because he knows he has something good ........he trys but why? When all he wants to do is be alone..... sorry having a frustrated ranting episode.