My Traumatic Stress - A New All Trauma Community If you're having a difficult time with a minor or major traumatic event, not PTSD specific, we now support all trauma types at My Traumatic Stress community. No diagnosis required. My bf is finally going to a PTSD treatment center. Its for 5 days. Has anyone here gone to one before? We have been together for 1 1/2 years now. His down times are lasting longer and longer each time something triggers him. This last time it lasted 4 weeks. I really wasn't sure if I was going to make it through it. It seems as if the more time we are together the more he pushes me away and dumps on me. The worst part is watching him text and talk to everyone but me. Everyone else get treated nice and with respect, then there is me the dumping station. I talked to someone from the VA the other day she says it will get better give it time. I don't see the better anymore its like I'm losing hope. He slips further and further each time. He is able to tell others how much he loves me and wants things to work. Why not tell me? I mean I'm the one in the relationship. Im just having a hard time. Im tired of there being no support for me. He stopped taking me to our counceling appts. His family is no support to him or me, in fact they make things worse. He knows it but still goes back for more. Im just wonder if anyone thinks this treatment will help.