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Bufol
Many of you said you think of your partner when you're distancing yourselves. I'm just trying to understand that. Do you think of them as someone you miss, or someone that scares you? Do you look at their profile and wonder what they're doing? Or are they someone that pops into your head occasionally when you're overwhelmed with symptoms that we are struggling to understand?
Someone once compared it to being sick with the flu, you're just to sick to deal with anyone but haven't forgotten them. I understand that a bit, but not totally. When I have the flu I can't deal with anyone. When I'm shut out, my sufferer is dealing with everyone but me. Or so it seems. I understand that was an analogy and a pretty good one. I just don't understand why I get pushed away first and most. And I don't understand what is happening to you when your pushing me away. What are you thinking of me during that time?
I'm sorry if this sounds really self centered.
Someone once compared it to being sick with the flu, you're just to sick to deal with anyone but haven't forgotten them. I understand that a bit, but not totally. When I have the flu I can't deal with anyone. When I'm shut out, my sufferer is dealing with everyone but me. Or so it seems. I understand that was an analogy and a pretty good one. I just don't understand why I get pushed away first and most. And I don't understand what is happening to you when your pushing me away. What are you thinking of me during that time?
I'm sorry if this sounds really self centered.