Hope this is the right place for these questions.
My son separated from his wife recently. I thought he was getting treatment at VA but now find out he had not included her for the last year and apparently was in denial(?) with his Psych and Psychologist. He told me that he had his 1st real conversation and has been referred for testing. I asked if I could go with him next Monday and he agreed, then asked "you mean go in with tester"? I said that was up to him.
We live 75 miles away from VA an his wife usually went with him. Very tiring trip. I'm trying to open the communication and try to be in the loop. In the past he has talked with me and told me what he could. I'm trying to be available but not push him away. Can I get some feed back? Am I on the right track? Teresa
My son separated from his wife recently. I thought he was getting treatment at VA but now find out he had not included her for the last year and apparently was in denial(?) with his Psych and Psychologist. He told me that he had his 1st real conversation and has been referred for testing. I asked if I could go with him next Monday and he agreed, then asked "you mean go in with tester"? I said that was up to him.
We live 75 miles away from VA an his wife usually went with him. Very tiring trip. I'm trying to open the communication and try to be in the loop. In the past he has talked with me and told me what he could. I'm trying to be available but not push him away. Can I get some feed back? Am I on the right track? Teresa