J_trustno1
MyPTSD Pro
I know that the question itself is wrong and doesn't sound very nice but shallow. If I didn't have body image issues I wouldn't have been asking this question. I know that there will be people who are better looking and worse looking that I am. I know that internal beauty matters more than external. However, the problem comes in when there is a better looking female and I start feeling that I'm not good enough. I start feeling down on myself, I don't hate her for being pretty or anything but I start demeaning the person I am which is no way near healthy for my person growth.
Why is that we are always looking at someone better than us in terms of looks or other standards? Why can't we just accept ourselves for who we are? I always struggle with my self-image as soon as I see a better looking female, and I just shut myself and pretend I don't exist anyone. I know that I'm harming myself but how do I change this??
Thanks for reading this.
Why is that we are always looking at someone better than us in terms of looks or other standards? Why can't we just accept ourselves for who we are? I always struggle with my self-image as soon as I see a better looking female, and I just shut myself and pretend I don't exist anyone. I know that I'm harming myself but how do I change this??
Thanks for reading this.