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I wrote a thread about a talk I had with my father. I complained that I had to do something because my vet could not do it. He basically told me that there are people who have a life lot worse than me and my vet (and he is right) and pointed out I was pretty strong.
I was a bit offended about this response. But then what if he had said just the opposite "His symptoms are the worst I have ever heard of. The both of you must have a horrible life" and what if he had told me I was pretty weak? Would I have felt better? NO!
So what response do I really want? *lol* Best response: the person solves the problem, but that is not always possible.
What response do you want as a sufferer or a supporter? Could you give examples of things people said you found helpful?
I like when people share an inspirational story from their life about overcoming obstacles (PTSD or others). I liked people telling me I am not alone.
I really did like when @holdenmonty told me to him the spouses of sufferers are sort of a little hero ;)
I was a bit offended about this response. But then what if he had said just the opposite "His symptoms are the worst I have ever heard of. The both of you must have a horrible life" and what if he had told me I was pretty weak? Would I have felt better? NO!
So what response do I really want? *lol* Best response: the person solves the problem, but that is not always possible.
What response do you want as a sufferer or a supporter? Could you give examples of things people said you found helpful?
I like when people share an inspirational story from their life about overcoming obstacles (PTSD or others). I liked people telling me I am not alone.
I really did like when @holdenmonty told me to him the spouses of sufferers are sort of a little hero ;)
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