My veteran absolutely HATES to see me relax. As I sit down for a cuppa he will say something like 'Did the washing machine finish yet?' or 'Have the dogs been fed?' or my least favourite 'What are you doing now?'
Is this hypervigilance? Army culture? PTSD? ADHD? TBI? Arrgghhh! Regardless, any suggestions as to how I can make him see that I need time to sit and relax sometimes?
Is this hypervigilance? Army culture? PTSD? ADHD? TBI? Arrgghhh! Regardless, any suggestions as to how I can make him see that I need time to sit and relax sometimes?