Last time in t office he helped someone that saw something in his room. Today I let him know there was an argument inside that I can hear ongoing that he shouldn't of touched it. His response was that there was nothing there in his reality and " That’s why I keep talking about becoming present and looking for what is changing in this moment, because this will help develop the understanding of what is really happening, rather than playing old stories of what happened in the past."
I don't know how the old stories play and I took this comment to be a bad thing like I could help it if we just stayed present.
It frustrates me that I do not know how to keep it from happening. Even at home there are so many things that happen and I know that I don't stay present, then I also have no idea what happens. At least he told me what he was doing versus what we thought he was doing.
So can anyone try to reword what he is saying? Or help me know.
I was trying to figure out how can we just talk to hi, know what is being said and not see or as he says play old stories. Do you think this is a blaming statement? I feel blamed somehow.
I don't know how the old stories play and I took this comment to be a bad thing like I could help it if we just stayed present.
It frustrates me that I do not know how to keep it from happening. Even at home there are so many things that happen and I know that I don't stay present, then I also have no idea what happens. At least he told me what he was doing versus what we thought he was doing.
So can anyone try to reword what he is saying? Or help me know.
I was trying to figure out how can we just talk to hi, know what is being said and not see or as he says play old stories. Do you think this is a blaming statement? I feel blamed somehow.