intheprocess
Confident
I am living with a very difficult person. If we try to talk, she says her thing angrily and when I try to say something she says she doesn't want to hear it. There are other things. Well, due to my being triggered by her regarding the incest, things have gone badly when I drive her places. I don't drive well due to being nervous and numb and we have had a few near misses. Well, I stood my ground! I told her I won't be driving her to her appointments anymore; that it is unsafe. I told her last week and she had a fit. The other night I told her I need to bring up a difficult topic and I reiterated that I won't be driving her. It was pretty bad, but I stood my ground! She planned to speak to our Superior about it the next day, so to represent myself I emailed the Superior about what happened. Sister met with her and I guess someone else will drive her. I stood my ground with her for the first time!