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The shitty thing is I did go through a women's shelter, and that's what their lawyers told me -- that it won't get granted unless it's a recent threat. They said I can't use the threats he made weeks and months ago. And this is after I gave them all the details on everything he's done. He's really very clever in his threats and emails, and I worry that what I see as a threat (and know is a threat based on his history), a judge might not. I don't really know. I know I can't use the emails he sent today, because there was nothing threatening in them. He'll actually probably try to use them against me in some way to claim I'm blocking access.ALL of them and anything else you have and go to the women's shelter and ask for assistance there getting your restraining order.
It's just one big shit show. It also may be different in my case because he's not a U.S. citizen and he resides in a different country. Which actually makes things harder for him.