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@anthony - I guess I don't quite understand what do you refer to when you say 'guilt'. Guilt surrounding what?
The problem is... the man I'm talking about doesn't understand how absolutely hurtful his actions are. When confronted, he just doesn't understand why I would feel hurt. When someone doesn't understand that on an innate level, how can you communicate to them or make them care that their actions have such an impact? I don't understand why he's shutting me down when... he's talking to everyone other than me. I don't quite understand how his struggling (with whatever it is) impact me and he gets distant with me but no one else. I just don't comprehend why I am the target of whatever he's going through when no one in his life has been more supportive and loving towards him than I have.
The problem is... the man I'm talking about doesn't understand how absolutely hurtful his actions are. When confronted, he just doesn't understand why I would feel hurt. When someone doesn't understand that on an innate level, how can you communicate to them or make them care that their actions have such an impact? I don't understand why he's shutting me down when... he's talking to everyone other than me. I don't quite understand how his struggling (with whatever it is) impact me and he gets distant with me but no one else. I just don't comprehend why I am the target of whatever he's going through when no one in his life has been more supportive and loving towards him than I have.