I have been with my boyfriend(a veteran) for 18 months. When we first met I lived overseas and we spent the first 6 months distance. He declared his love within 3days and always said how he can't wait to get married and have a family. He was besotted all his friends and family were surprised.., and he also said he would never put work before us.
About 6 months ago after a few months of being miserable he decided to change what he was doing and try get back into the industry. It was at this time he said he didnt want to get married or have kids.
He has previously been married and has a child but that fell away whilst deployed. As did his first relationship(ended an engagement whilst deployed).Is it possible he is just saying it out of fear or does he most likely mean it?
He is currently unemployed and stressed and depressed by that! Most days we are good but the past 2 weeks we havent spoken. He now claims he doesnt believe love exists, is this just a temporary phase whilst he is having a low moment or is it at these times the truth is really spoken??
About 6 months ago after a few months of being miserable he decided to change what he was doing and try get back into the industry. It was at this time he said he didnt want to get married or have kids.
He has previously been married and has a child but that fell away whilst deployed. As did his first relationship(ended an engagement whilst deployed).Is it possible he is just saying it out of fear or does he most likely mean it?
He is currently unemployed and stressed and depressed by that! Most days we are good but the past 2 weeks we havent spoken. He now claims he doesnt believe love exists, is this just a temporary phase whilst he is having a low moment or is it at these times the truth is really spoken??