Glen Myers
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Are the people who try to go around everywhere looking for the smallest things to start beef (fights, arguments, drama, etc.) over insecure or something? I'm pretty short and I had a friend who was the same height as me who always felt the need to instigate fights with others or get into other people's altercations (the reason I point out our height is because I feel like it might of been a napoleon complex he possibly had, who knows what it really is though). For example, if he saw two people verbally getting at each other, he would try to make it so they got even more mad at each other and tried to make them fight. I always felt an intense anger when he did that, how could someone actually smile while yelling and motivating the people to fight each other by saying things like "OOHHH YOU'RE JUST GONNA LET HIM DO THAT? WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO?", how is that any entertainment? I just walked away and looked at my phone when stuff like that happened.
I never really wanted to go around fighting everyone or looking for beef to start, in fact i'm REALLY timid and don't like the idea of a physical altercation unless some stranger randomly assaults me in public. I don't believe in starting fights because the other person was "talking smack" and getting your panties in a bunch over a hurt pride. Real self defense is justified, backing your ego isn't. At least in my opinion.
Either way the group we rolled with was pretty aggressive except for me, which caused them to pick on me quite a bit even though I offered my friendship and nothing but respect. They were really big on having respect through physical dominance in their neighborhood. One night my friend who was the same height as me was over at my house and we were both drinking, He was talking about wanting to go to the mall the next day, I agreed but I had to make some ground rules, I had enough of him blowing up at strangers and trying to make a big deal out of nothing. I told him "fine i'll go, but I'm not backing you up if you get into any stupid sh*t." and he said "what are you talking about?", like he was genuinely unaware of what I was referring to. I said "you don't know how to let stuff go, you always want to be like 'What are you looking at me like that for!?', 'you wanna go!?' and 'what's good', you don't know how to let it go man!" and he got really offended, like I hit a soft spot. He said "you're a p*s sy, you won't do sh*t!, you just let everyone fu*k wit you", I called him a D*ck and he said "it's better than being a p*ssy" really pissed off. Nothing pissed me off more than the fact that people actually have to think that fighting over words and going around acting all macho is what it means to be a "man"
Need I remind you, 3/4 of the freakin time he wanted to start something with someone, they did NOTHING TO US. They just seemed to be another group of kids like us (trouble makers), minding their own business. A lot of the time they weren't looking for trouble and you could tell they were getting into their own mess (drinking, hanging out wasting time) but they weren't looking for a fight or anything. My friend always instigated it.
My bad for censoring all of the words, this originally went on Yahoo! answers and they would of censored the whole word, leaving people unaware of the words I was going to try to use.
I never really wanted to go around fighting everyone or looking for beef to start, in fact i'm REALLY timid and don't like the idea of a physical altercation unless some stranger randomly assaults me in public. I don't believe in starting fights because the other person was "talking smack" and getting your panties in a bunch over a hurt pride. Real self defense is justified, backing your ego isn't. At least in my opinion.
Either way the group we rolled with was pretty aggressive except for me, which caused them to pick on me quite a bit even though I offered my friendship and nothing but respect. They were really big on having respect through physical dominance in their neighborhood. One night my friend who was the same height as me was over at my house and we were both drinking, He was talking about wanting to go to the mall the next day, I agreed but I had to make some ground rules, I had enough of him blowing up at strangers and trying to make a big deal out of nothing. I told him "fine i'll go, but I'm not backing you up if you get into any stupid sh*t." and he said "what are you talking about?", like he was genuinely unaware of what I was referring to. I said "you don't know how to let stuff go, you always want to be like 'What are you looking at me like that for!?', 'you wanna go!?' and 'what's good', you don't know how to let it go man!" and he got really offended, like I hit a soft spot. He said "you're a p*s sy, you won't do sh*t!, you just let everyone fu*k wit you", I called him a D*ck and he said "it's better than being a p*ssy" really pissed off. Nothing pissed me off more than the fact that people actually have to think that fighting over words and going around acting all macho is what it means to be a "man"
Need I remind you, 3/4 of the freakin time he wanted to start something with someone, they did NOTHING TO US. They just seemed to be another group of kids like us (trouble makers), minding their own business. A lot of the time they weren't looking for trouble and you could tell they were getting into their own mess (drinking, hanging out wasting time) but they weren't looking for a fight or anything. My friend always instigated it.
My bad for censoring all of the words, this originally went on Yahoo! answers and they would of censored the whole word, leaving people unaware of the words I was going to try to use.