anthony
Founder
I was pondering this question of late, so I went a did a little research looking through some online singles profiles to see what is being said, and let me just say, most scare the hell out of me. Whilst I am not looking for a relationship, hell... I'm not even looking for female company at the moment, I just want some good time alone for a while, I am thinking about what I really want though from a partner, something that I could go into with my eyes wide open, and accept little less than some basics, being:
What do you really want from your partner, single or married? What is the ultimate peace in your life within a relationship?
- a friend that you can share love, but is a friend first.
- self confidence and doesn't rely on being codependent upon myself for anything, can function by herself.
- can talk emotionally, but not drain me by being needie (comes back to self confidence). Big difference between emotional discussion and then outright emotionally needie.
- is not controlling, but more logical, in that neither party attempts to change the other in any way, simply co-exist and accept one another for themselves, but obviously being happy with that mould.
- someone who is successful and independent, whatever they have choosen to follow in life, simply apply themselves to that self goal.
- someone who looks after themselves, and whilst short periods in life people get lazy (acceptable), always comes back around to taking care of themself physically and mentally.
- a calm person, not aggressive, not passive, but assertive, confident, not stressful, not demanding, simply happy to be alive and healthy.
What do you really want from your partner, single or married? What is the ultimate peace in your life within a relationship?