caligirl03
Confident
My bf and I had a counseling appointment today but both confused the time and missed our slot. As soon as I was made aware of this by our T, I immediately called my bf informing him before he made the 20 or so minute to where I live.
He sounded irked but said, Ok, what should we do? And I said, Well, I'm still up for hanging out if you are. I can meet you somewhere or just come up there, especially since you come down here fairly often. He said, What, like at a restaurant? I don't want to go hang out at a restaurant, that's so f*cking stupid, sounding increasingly pissed off. So I said (starting to feel agitated/hurt myself) Well like I said, I can come over, but I'm starving so I'm going to go grab food first. He said, Yeah, me too. I said, Ok, well let me know when you'll be there, I don't want to get there when you're not home (probably sounding increasingly agitated). He said, Let me get back to you. I said, Ok bye (rather quickly). He called me back a couple minutes later, and I said, Look, for whatever reason stuff is obviously charged right now, so I think it's best we don't talk right now. And he said, Ok bye in the same fashion I did and hung up the phone.
Now I'm just reeling, wondering how a seemingly benign conversation turned nasty and so fast.
He sounded irked but said, Ok, what should we do? And I said, Well, I'm still up for hanging out if you are. I can meet you somewhere or just come up there, especially since you come down here fairly often. He said, What, like at a restaurant? I don't want to go hang out at a restaurant, that's so f*cking stupid, sounding increasingly pissed off. So I said (starting to feel agitated/hurt myself) Well like I said, I can come over, but I'm starving so I'm going to go grab food first. He said, Yeah, me too. I said, Ok, well let me know when you'll be there, I don't want to get there when you're not home (probably sounding increasingly agitated). He said, Let me get back to you. I said, Ok bye (rather quickly). He called me back a couple minutes later, and I said, Look, for whatever reason stuff is obviously charged right now, so I think it's best we don't talk right now. And he said, Ok bye in the same fashion I did and hung up the phone.
Now I'm just reeling, wondering how a seemingly benign conversation turned nasty and so fast.