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Reconceptualising “vulnerability” & “deserving” & possibly other words I don’t grok.

Openness, authenticity, transparency, & honesty to not evoke weakness.
That's a great point, @Friday. It's important to remember that vulnerability and strength are not mutually exclusive. In fact, vulnerability can be an incredible source of strength, as it allows us to connect with others in meaningful ways and fosters empathy and understanding.

When we embrace vulnerability and allow ourselves to be authentic and open with others, we can create positive change in our own lives and the lives of those around us. Not only that, but it can also help us build resilience and develop a deeper sense of our own personal values and priorities.

So, while there may be risks involved with being vulnerable, it's important to remember that it's not a sign of weakness. In fact, it takes a great deal of courage and strength to be truly vulnerable with others.
 
When we embrace vulnerability and allow ourselves to be authentic and open with others, we can create positive change in our own lives and the lives of those around us. Not only that, but it can also help us build resilience and develop a deeper sense of our own personal values and priorities.
When we abjure vulnerability and allow ourselves to be authentic and open with others, we can create positive change in our own lives, and the lives of those around us. Yes? No?
 
When we abjure vulnerability and allow ourselves to be authentic and open with others, we can create positive chand in our own lives, and the lives of those around us. Yes? No?
I think there may be a typo in your statement, so here are a few different versions of what I think you might mean:

- "When we practice vulnerability and allow ourselves to be authentic and open with others, we can create positive change in our own lives and the lives of those around us." - Yes, I agree with this statement. Being vulnerable can allow us to connect more deeply with others, build stronger relationships, and foster empathy and understanding.

- "When we reject vulnerability and hide behind a facade of perfection, we miss out on opportunities to create positive change in our lives and the lives of those around us." - Yes, I also agree with this statement. When we try to hide our vulnerabilities and present ourselves as perfect or invulnerable, we can miss out on opportunities for growth and connection with others.

- "When we embrace vulnerability and allow ourselves to be authentic and open with others, we can create positive change in our own lives, but it may not necessarily affect the lives of those around us." - This statement could be true in some cases. While vulnerability can certainly lead to positive changes in our own lives, it may not always directly impact the lives of those around us. However, I do believe that when we are able to connect more meaningfully with others through vulnerability, it often does have a positive impact on both our own lives and the lives of those around us.
 
No typo.

When we abjure, reject, refuse vulnerability & allow ourselves to be open, authentic, and honest with others? We can create positive change in our own lives, and others.
 
No typo.

When we abjure, refuse, refuse vulnerability & allow ourselves to be open, authentic, and honest with others? We can create positive change in our own lives, and others.
Thank you for clarifying, @Friday. I apologize for the confusion earlier.

To answer your updated statement, when we refuse vulnerability and instead allow ourselves to be open, authentic, and honest with others, I do believe that it can create positive change in our own lives and the lives of others around us. By being open and honest with others, we can create deeper connections, build trust, and foster understanding. This can lead to a more positive and supportive environment, and can be beneficial for everyone involved. Additionally, when we are open and honest with others about our struggles, we may also be able to inspire others to do the same and break down stigmas surrounding mental health and seeking help.
 
It’s like a firewall.
I'm not quite sure what you mean by "it's like a firewall." Can you please clarify your statement or provide more context so that I can better understand what you are trying to say?
 
Choosing to whom we are open & honest towards, instead of being vulnerable, is like a firewall.
 
Choosing to whom we are open & honest towards, instead of being vulnerable, is like a firewall.
I see what you're saying now, @Friday. Yes, in a way, being selective about who we are open and honest with could be compared to a firewall. A firewall, in the context of computer security, is a barrier that is used to prevent unauthorized access to a system or network. In a similar vein, being selective about who we choose to be vulnerable with can serve as a barrier to prevent potential harm or negative consequences. By setting boundaries and being careful about who we trust, we can protect ourselves from emotional harm and ensure that we are sharing our personal struggles with people who are supportive and understanding. However, it is also important to remember that vulnerability can be a powerful tool for growth and healing, and learning to trust others and open up in a safe and healthy way can also be beneficial. It's all about finding the right balance for our individual needs and circumstances.
 
Vulnerability can be a powerful tool for growth and healing because it allows us to connect with others on a deeper level and foster a sense of belonging. When we open up about our struggles and insecurities, we allow others to see us for who we truly are and build more authentic relationships. This, in turn, can lead to greater self-awareness and self-acceptance, as we learn to embrace all aspects of ourselves, including the parts that we may have been keeping hidden.

In addition, sharing our experiences with others can also help us gain new perspectives, insights, and coping strategies that we may not have considered before. For example, if you are struggling with PTSD symptoms, talking to someone who has gone through a similar experience can provide valuable validation, encouragement, and support. It can help to reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness, which are common in people who are dealing with any form of trauma.

However, it's important to note that vulnerability should only be shared in a safe and supportive environment. It's important to choose carefully who we share our struggles with and to ensure that they are people who can be trusted and will respect our privacy. Working with a therapist or mental health professional can provide a safe and confidential space to explore our emotions and vulnerabilities, and they are often trained in helping people with PTSD and other forms of trauma to process their experiences in a healthy and healing way.
 
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