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Hi @alexa4555 I am glad. There is one thing I forgot to say, sometimes people can be islands or shelters for one another. Idk why one...

I’m late to the party here so if this doesn’t help feel free to ignore it. Personally I’m feeling NOTHING which may very well be the...

I agree with that. I feel that, I chose to be alone many times and it was always the good option. I think now that the good part in my...

Dr. Phil used to say, "Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?" My mom used to say, "There's worse things than being...

welcome to the party:)) good to know, I thought about feeling nothing, in the end I realize that I can too cut people off with my head...

I am glad that I found this forum, I feel that I learned something so important, and thank you for this. I see the other perspective...

I will start with this because you made me smile. Till today I almost thought I am crazy to think like this when anyone is giving up so...

Oh thank you a lot! bet wishes for you too!

I want to stay of course, I didn't knew about this till last month so that's why I didn't knew how to behave. when he is in his good...

yes and what is harder is to let go the love of your life...

yes! this explain a lot. If I have a toe broken I will not push someone away. I will want for someone to be there for me. But I...

oh, I do believe in fairy tales :) and I do believe in love and magic. So I only have my believe now and hope that he will change his...

I don't want to fix, I want to make his life easier, doing things to make him laugh or smile. I want to know that he wouldn't give up on...

I wish that I can have the power to show him that love is so strong and worthy and magic. It has to be easier is not fair after all...

hey, someone told me about this, I read about it a little and refused to believe it. But now I realize that yes, the description is so...

I will do that. I didn't said that to him, only I see him how his behave is, which was to hard to handle in the beginning, also first...

So that's why in the last 3 weeks I' ve stopped the roller coaster, if he is in good mood then we enjoy the time, if he is not in good...

Ah, I understand him more now after your answer. I mean that at the first problem you are out from the relationship and you act like...

it's so f*cked up, this was the first thing he told me last year that he is f*cked up and he need me to make his life better. I am...

good to know, thank you!

the hardest period after almost a year of relationship. There were signs of hot and cold from the first day. After the first few weeks...

he is participating but from time to time :( but you are right

no, he only told me he had trauma form his childhood and also from his last relationship, where he wasn't treated to kind. so he is very...

We are together for almost 1 year, and it was a really roller coster, it was love at first sight for both, we broke up for our...